You think your doing o.k. as a parent, and then one of your kids licks a jellyfish.

We've been at the beach for a few hours.  We've eaten lunch and have settled into a lazy afternoon.  I'm laying on my blanket, I put my book down and shut my eyes as I listen to the rhythm of the waves against the voices of my kids as they enjoy the day. 

Soon the quiet is interrupted by a half yell, half groan.  I look up as one of my kids comes running over with his tongue hanging out, he is trying to say something.  (It sounded like the teacher in the Charlie Brown cartoons.)  I couldn't understand what he wanted for a moment.  Then he was able to say "water!"  I hand him the water and watch him pour it on his tongue.  I'm still trying to figure out why is he acting so strange.  So I look at my other son who had come over to watch his brother.   My other son says, (With a grin on his face.)  "I told him I'd give him a dollar if he licked a jellyfish."  

Never in my wildest dreams would I have thought that this particular child would lick a jellyfish.  That's the way parenting goes sometimes.  Regardless of what you have taught them, what example you have set, what you say, how much you nag and cajole.  Even regardless of their own knowledge.  They do something stupid.  There isn't anyone to blame or get mad at.  Stuff just happens.  You gotta roll with the punches. 

(His tongue was numb for a little while, but didn't seem to have any other effects from the dare.  His only regret was that he should have done it for more money.)

Crazy busy

We have been crazy busy for years.  It's worse then ever right now.  Our oldest left on his mission 3 weeks ago.  We have sold our home and purchased another.  Our second son has graduated from high school and is preparing to leave for college.  He will stay in Maryland and work for the summer.  Our third and our fourth and sixth boys are playing baseball.  That's 5-7 games or practices a week to taxi them to and from and to try and watch some games.  Our third son finishes middle school and will be in high school in the fall.  Frank has had extra doctor appointments due to a minor health issue.  We have end of the school year band concerts and ceremonies to attend.  After taking many loads of belongings to our home in Virgina.  We are tired and sore.  We will move on Monday to a new state with only four children at home.   Things should get easier, right??  I'm planning an old fashioned summer.  The kind with sun, heat, and Popsicles.  The kind where kids wear the same clothes for days.  Swim suits.  I vow to read only fiction books.  Eat loads of farm market fruits and veggies.  I will watch my kids catch fireflies.  We will go on bike rides.  I will spend days without knowing what time it is.  We are limiting schedule events to bare minimum.  Not going to be busy anymore.  Well...until football!

warranties and manuals

I'm cleaning out the file cabinet. Separating the owners manuals. The ones that stay here in the house and the ones that move with us. It's very much like when I gave away all the baby clothes. Bittersweet.

We have replaced every appliance in the house. We purchased the washer and dryer and the freezer the first week we lived here. Having 4 boys at the time, we bought the extra large capacity. It cut my laundry time in half.

The first appliance to go was the water heater. I remember the panic when there was unexplained water soaking the carpet in the basement.

Then, came the oven, microwave and refrigerator. One of them quit working and since all were old we purchase them to match. We super sized everything. Then the air conditioner quit working. It was August, in Washington D.C. I was pregnant and the humidity and heat was unbearable. I have never loved an appliance more.

When we remodeled the kitchen we purchase a new dishwasher. It's a excellent kitchen by the way. You don't have to take more then one step to bake or cook anything. There is an amazing amount of storage in those tall cabinets.

The last appliance to go on us was the heater. It was the original heater that was placed in the house when it was built. I remember quite a few years getting the old heater serviced and cleaned for the winter and wondering if that was going to be the year we had to buy a new one.

We also added siding, new glass doors, and gutter guard. It's a good house...and I have a binder full of warranties and manuals to show for it.